In one way I can understand how you feel when someone leaves children in the wind. No excuse for it. I do agree with Glam that forgivness is key to one own healing. Yes, your XW should suffer the consequences of her actions - this i agree with. I do not agree that people are making excuses on these boards (at least most do not).
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I guess my outlook on this stems from my father leaving us
FTR - my father left 20 bucks on the table when I was born and walked away - so I do understand your feeling about people who leave there children. Here is my personal though...Is it my job to ensure that they suffer - is it my job to carry around the burden of those negative feelings? IMO - Not. This stuff I leave to God.
I am happy that you found yourself a partner BH. May God Bless you and your family in the future.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
