still separated, headed for D?

[WhatNow]

Great job! You did fabulous with the sympathy. Not too much, didn't ask too many questions, Kinda like you were talking to the mailman.

Now I am feeling kind of like in the future when we discuss the schedule or plans, I should say something that puts me in the power position if that makes sense. Like "I don't know yet but that's okay, I will find babysitting if something comes up."

I wouldn't say too much here. Maybe just a 'Thanks for the heads up' or 'Thanks I'll figure it out'. Then his thoughts can fuss over what you're doing or how you'll figure it out. I am finding that the less I say, the better!

(I love good hair days!!!)