Keep business business and keep him informed about D.
Past that...dark is dark.
"How is your day?" "What did you do last night?" At work? Nocomittal.
"Ok" "Nothing much"
Any pressure for more. should be met with,
"I really would like to just keep this professional and business like. I am giving you the space you want, plase give me the space I want."
As for your D...you know, actually talking with her is a great idea. Giving him a brief run down of that conversation...and lettig her know beofre hand or asking her if you can relay the genrals about it to him as her father...isn't using her as a pawn.
If she is pisssed at him, she has every right to be pisssed, you are the one DBing him...not her. He can know that....I am kinda surprise he hasn't figured that out...but then MLC go figure. Head in the sand everything is fine and my ass smells like roses MLCers. : )
Dark is good, it is for you.
You are a smart lady you can figure out ways to say and do things to stay dark.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
