My last few post have been a little tough on you and so I will continue to appologize.
First I think you are doing really good standing your ground. IMO - I would not go to C. In a way you are bending over AGAIN to his wishes. I do not know enough about your business sitch but really why would you go to discuss business matters. If he wants to work on the R then it is pretty simple - leave OM!
Personally, I think it is time for you to go completely dark. His comment about not knowing what is going on. Who cares, he is the one that put himself in this spot. I also feel that you may be spending WAY too much time trying to figure out what he is thinking or feeling. Let him go Mila...let him find his own way.
Once again...sorry if I have offended you. It is not my intent.
God Bless, Eric
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