I may come across as one of the ladies on these threads....but I wanted to scream when I read your post (picture a dude screaming OMG - girlfriend )
Did you mean usually ?
Lately?
Mostly?
I would answer with ....... YES...to all the above.
Would you like another Mojito Ma'am ?
Okay so as part of the process of reflection I have found my girly side
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans