Mach, have you not realized yet that I will usually see you picking on my Trapt. You be nice! LOL!
Cat, thank you for your kinds words. I have learned a lot from you, my friend.
Eric, being patient throughout all this is probably one of the hardest parts - but, it is a very necessary one.
If you rush through, you might miss steps that are necessary for you to take.
Changes, if they are to stick, should come slowly, after careful thought and naturally.
Accepting that you did not do the things you may have or may not have done in your marriage on purpose is a difficult one. But, if you realized what you were doing, you would not have continued.
That's part of why we are meant to go on this journey. We needed to see, hear, feel and change.
So, what is the guilt doing for you? If it's not moving you forward, it's holding you back.
Learn from the past, but, dont let it drag you down.
This is a long process, with twists and turns and ups and downs. Embrace them all because each one is a life lesson.
Learn to hear and see and feel. Then real change comes.
