Originally Posted By: idontunderstand

While I agree with Coach, I know how hard it would be for you to do.

You have posted on my sitch so many times about not letting her run me through the wringer. You have been holding on for so long. You have been patient. After you hear from her pastor, which ever way the meeting goes, I think it is past time for the drop the OM speech. I know you want to save your M, but she has to do some work too. It doesn't sound like she has had to do very much to make you hang in there. I understand.

Like you told me, take the leap of faith, lead your family, let her know you have made your choice and it's past time that she made hers. You will be great no matter what. That's one thing I do know for sure.


My W has had to do nothing, and has DONE nothing since day 1 to keep me hanging on. I have been relying on faith and my own desire to save my family. I may be ridiculed for that in the end, but I don't care. This situation has caused me to make a 180 as far as zeal for my faith goes, and there is no going back. So if nothing else, I have netted a personal gain from this experience.

I have no fear in delivering her the message. The bag of tricks is now empty and indefinite limbo is all I will face otherwise, and that is not acceptable.


WAW Using God
Me-43
W-40
M-14
S-11
S-9
D-7
EABomb 5/09
Separated 12/09