"MY take on a life crisis is the merging of whatever adult mind with the rough age of whatever they were when some mental trauma occurred."
All things considered, is it a relatively safe assumption to think her EA with DJ from China could be an indicator of some trauma that occurred when she dated DJ in high school and her parents broke it off. Could they BOTH have experienced some deep-rooted psychological damage way back when? Cause man, some of the stuff HE'S pulled. When I was [guilty of] snooping my wife's e-mails, I saw messages where he's telling my wife to fantasize about him kissing her, spending 'days in bed together'. He posted more pictures of MY daughter on his Windows Messenger profile page than of his own kid. (For what, to impress my wife?)I've already mentioned he walked out on his own family and has the nerve to e-mail my wife pictures of his divorce papers as proof of his love. There was one paranoid e-mail to my wife where his cell phone apparently rang one day, and the psycho thought it was ME calling him.....and speaking Chinese! Why you may ask...? Because, according to DJ, there was too much silence on the phone before I started speaking Chinese to him... Anyways, really insane stuff from this idiot. He is/was manipulating my wife's emotions and totally taking advantage of her vulnerabilities. It really, really pisses me the hell off, but what can I do at this point? And, to top it all off, my poor wife bought into alot of this and called him her soul-mate. Pretty typical MLC response I guess, but she essentially thought of him as her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ I guess(Well, the Chinese version anyways...) Bad analogy, I suppose, but still sick stuff.
As Daffy Duck would say, "Dat's Deeeeee-spicable!"
