She said, "I just remember that time at the childrens museum when D8(who was 2 at the time) pee'd on your leg." I said, "Did I get mad then?" She said, "yes, you were in a pretty grumpy mood all day." Then she said, "That was a MUCH better response this time." I could tell she was so releived that I did not blow my top or get in a cranky mood. I was such a downer all the time in those days and I know now how that affected her. Now, that does not mean I deserve to be cheated on but it paved the way for her to become attached to another man. One that was calmer, more confident and therfore, more attractive.
She thanked me for not getting onto a crabby mood once again before we left so I put my hand on her shoulder and just smiled. The physical contact is not bothering her at all lately.
Uh, v1olin, this is again sounding unbelievably similar to my sitch. Your W has obviously been noticing you, and is bringing up the past to contrast what she now sees. This is what started happening with me last fall. What were your W's issues in your M? Is she showing signs of accepting her part? Sounds to me like healing has begun.
