It sucks big time that your H snoops in on your DB thread posts. You could change your name again, but you should only post from a computer he has no access to.
If you read my first thread, you will only see a guy that is devasted and not detaching from the stupid actions of another (his wife). I have since been not living with her for 2 and a half years and I am very happy about the outcome. The kids are well adjusted and the XW and I coparent very well together.
I have another date tommorrow with the lady I have been seeing for the last 3 months. We have developed a good friendship and I believe we are quickly becoming more than "just friends". I like this girl a lot!
I am taking the kids Friday thru Monday to Pacific City on the coast to stay at this cabin. We will have a great time and it does not hurt that I have a half century membership in S.N.O.B. (Society of Native Oregon Born) so as to know of neat tucked away beaches.
BTW... Back in the 1970's, before it was illegal, I noticed that the Tillamook region was very popular with those that picked "some kind of mushroom" as the grey wet weather and dairy cows made for ideal conditions - Go Ask Alice.