Ok just got call from FIL2 and MIL1 They told me to stop talking about affair they are accepting WAW relationship with O/M.
They basicaly said im crazy for trying to save my marrige and to deal with it and move on.They say the O/M makes wife happy and does not matter when and how affair happened. They told me i was crazy for sending letters to Wifes freinds and them. I have no other way to get this back on track. FIL said dont try to hold things up in the divorce and just let go like a man and start to move on with my life. He said that by me trying to hold on makes me look like a fool, and she would have left me sooner or later.He said to leave O/M alone that wife is as much to blame as he is. he told me that she wanted to be happy and he makes her happy and let it go.
I told him that when i said my marrige vows for better or worse that i meant it i had to try to save my marrige to the bitter end to save my family. He told me that i just dont know when to stop that she thought it was over months ago.
Well i guess im done i guess if everyone accepts it and has no morrale values then it is time to cut bait and run. I have nothing else to give when your family does not care. TWOLF
Last edited by twolf; 05/26/1006:32 PM.
Me 37 Waw 32 son2 bomb 8/11/09 O/M 12/25/09 Divorce filed 8/25/09 divorce finale 6/16/10 Divorce putt on hold 6/16/10 Divorce postponed STBXW idea 8/8/10