Ok just got call from FIL2 and MIL1 They told me to stop talking about affair they are accepting WAW relationship with O/M.

They basicaly said im crazy for trying to save my marrige and to deal with it and move on.They say the O/M makes wife happy and does not matter when and how affair happened.
They told me i was crazy for sending letters to Wifes freinds and them.
I have no other way to get this back on track.
FIL said dont try to hold things up in the divorce and just let go like a man and start to move on with my life.
He said that by me trying to hold on makes me look like a fool, and she would have left me sooner or later.He said to leave O/M alone that wife is as much to blame as he is.
he told me that she wanted to be happy and he makes her happy and let it go.

I told him that when i said my marrige vows for better or worse that i meant it i had to try to save my marrige to the bitter end to save my family.
He told me that i just dont know when to stop that she thought it was over months ago.


Well i guess im done i guess if everyone accepts it and has no morrale values then it is time to cut bait and run. I have nothing else to give when your family does not care. TWOLF

Last edited by twolf; 05/26/10 06:32 PM.

Me 37
Waw 32
son2
bomb 8/11/09
O/M 12/25/09
Divorce filed 8/25/09
divorce finale 6/16/10
Divorce putt on hold 6/16/10
Divorce postponed STBXW idea 8/8/10