Newbie.Trying with faith and hope to save marriage

[MrBond]

PC,

You handled that amazingly. I know it must have been the hardest thing you've ever done in your life. All I can say is stay strong.

Now when he calls, don't answer the phone. Send a polite text and say that you are thinking about your future and both of your future child's future.

Right now he is lashing out because he is scared. He's going to accuse you of practically being the antichrist. Don't buy into it. It's all him. So don't provoke anything by contacting him. In cases like this, when a narcissist or alcoholic starts playing the victim card, they are going to tell EVERYONE about how they hurt. How THEY are a victim. And how you are the bad guy. You're not.

He's thinking ... how dare you throw yourself onto my penis and get yourself pregnant. You planned it all!

Let him go through his temper tantrum. He will self-destruct on his own. When he does, that's when you step in and contact him.

Timing is critical right now.

It's obvious where he gets his behavior from. His family. His mom kept asking what were YOU planning to do, etc. And how it was bad for HIM. All she does is think about him. Stop contact with them as well. You can do this.