How should I handle MLC direct lying?

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I'm still needing advice about the vacation above. But now have yet another question. One of my husband's text/cell EAs still contacts him periodically. He had stopped responding to her much even before d day (cell recs confirm) and hasn't responded to her at all since. She sends texts asking why he stopped talking to her, etc.

My H texts me and tells me what her texts say. She contacts him about every 3-5 weeks. We discussed this about 2 months ago and I told him I wanted him to text her in front of me telling her he no longer wants to text w her. He got very upset and said that he thought responding at all, in any way would just cause her to keep on even if what he sent was asking her to stop. I finally saw his point and agreed.

Yesterday she texted him. He in turn sent me a message telling me what she said. HOWEVER, he immedately when on to say "and on another note HI how are your and what are your weekend plans?". This sent me over the edge b/c of the flippant tone. Like it's no big deal if she continues to text him.

Unless he doesn't remember (possible) he knows how I feel about this. I haven't responded to his text as of yet. I want this BS out of my life. And I feel completely not-understood that he would tell me she contacted him and then move right into "how you doing?".

Please tell me the best way to handle. THANKS