Now re the 'accidental finding' ... I honestly didn't see the EA coming ... even defended him to my IC and my best friend when they told me there was probably someone else clouding his vision, so it's true that I was NOT snooping or looking around for stuff because I completely trusted that it was NOT an issue (this was before I figured out that the man I was now dealing with an alien and not my husband!). I moved his sweater and his phone actually fell out of the pocket and since he hadn't shut down his texting outbox the message was right there on the screen to see. I was dumbfounded and didn't snoop any farther - I just called her and then calmly confronted him. Oh, and FYI, he doesn't believe me either but hey, what can I say!
I believe THAT was accidental.
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... on May 14th found an email addy I didn't know about and called him on his cell
I think you went looking for that one. And as I read a little further...hey I was right! : )
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I do not want details!
Not if you reconcile you don't. Good for you. Smart.
Here we are going to suggest that you look at yourself...deep find the things you do not like about yourself and kill them.
He called you controlling any truth to that? Do you like that about yourself?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
