Newbie.Trying with faith and hope to save marriage

[papayachic]

I sent him the text message.

CONVO with his mother:

I called his mother and spoke to her for just a few minutes. I told her I had two things to tell her and would only take a minute of her time

First, I beleive in marriage. You do not end 9 years together, 2 married on a phone call. He went up there to get help and I have heard from both your side and his father's side that he's flashing off some blonde. We are still married. Since he does not have the audacity to speak to me then I sent him a text but I thought you should receive a phone call.

Second reason for the phone call is to tell you Im pregnant. This is NOT a scam. This is not to attempt to get him back. I will be having a baby end of year.

She was shocked. kept asking me if i was ready. I told her Im more than financially ready, my family is supporting me and I will not change my mind. She kept saying to think it through. It will be your responsibility for life, etc...She also said marriage is between me and him. For all she knows, she thinks that woman is his friend only, but it is not her place to get involved. THe thing she is most worried about is his sobriety. His recovery. She's worried how he'll take the news and its his decision etc...

This was a mother in law I loved because she would not meddle. Now i feel she is just tip toeing to whatever he says bc she doesnt want him to fail. ughhhhhh....

well i said, that woman is not my concern now. Wanted to give you a call to let you know you will be a grandmother. all of you can decide if you want to be involved. You have my number and then I hung up.