Running out of time.

[Cie la vie]

Well my STBX continues to fire emails off at me. The latest was to inquire about why my son's eye was black and blue. My initial thought was she was being accusatorial. I responded with "I don't know he didn't have a black eye when I left to work". I can see where this is going.

She asked AGAIN if I would like to be included on big things like going to Dland etc. with her and the kids.

I responded by saying under different circumstances I would love to to take part in their excitement and joy but we are no longer a family and I don't feel it is fair to them to pretend that we are. I continued with telling her I envisioned being together as a group only at major events in their lives such as HS and college graduations and when they marry.

I wonder what DB experts would have to say about my recent decisions because to be honest I am now operating on instinct and reason as opposed to any DB script.