Hi True, thanks for your post. I think that you see it right, he may be confused, but he is plowing ahead with his MLC and all of this C talk is all about control. He is asking to go to C not to work on our marriage, but to keep me in place and to stay in business with him and make it workable for him so he can continue his affair with OW with as little inconvenience to his present arrangements as possible.

I replied to his email asking about a meeting. I said that if we need to talk about business that I have no problem meeting with him. This is his reply

We can meet and try to stick to business talk, if you think it’s possible... You see, I wanted us to meet with C to help us get our communication on track...
I thought the meetings would be good, to force us to talk about business related issues like outstanding invoices, networking, marketing, new jobs...

So we are going to pay the counselor to talk about outstanding invoices????

So to answer your question....I don't think he is done....far from it.

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO