My Husband Just Left Me

[Ready2Change]

As far as the house is concerned I don't believe if I stayed in the house that he would stop contributing to it.

I am confused. Could you restate this.

I obviously don't know this for sure but I don't want to just say "Yeah, sure let's put it on the market" becuase he might not pay.

You are absolutely right. If he wants to sell, you can assume all later, but no need to worry about that yet. "I see many other options. Right now, I do not want to sell our house."

He keeps saying he wished he hated me because it would make it easier. He says he loves me but isn't in love with me anymore.

WHAT NEEDS is he getting from these OW....Can you meet them?

As far as going into work - I'm going to go if I think I can make it through the day without crying every 30 minutes. If not, I don't think I should go in. I don't really want to tell my co-workers or boss what is going on right now.

I am sorry you have to go through this. Feel all the feelings and let the tears flow. DOING THIS AWAY FROM H is the important part.

HUGS