I'm going to be the a$$hole here. Just to warn you upfront.
You have placed a boundary for you.
You have done very well keeping it in the face of his ever increasing efforts to cross it.
Under what circumstances will you let him cross it ...
...again?
Look at the dates in your sig line. I know you are walking the line of really hoping that this may be the real change in H.
You are doing so well now. You are really making progress and you have been able to because you have put H at arms length.
Are you done with your journey?
I'm going to spend a nickle here (nickle Mach)
Is he done with his? Look how far you have come and it has been hard and that is with these wise folks here and you being away from him and his craziness.
Is this his end?
Think Mila. This is hard. Do you think you can even start repairing a M in these circumstances and what do you risk if you go to C.
Only you can answer that....
I would not go but that is me. I have worked too hard to give ground back to someone with their head still in the tunnel.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
