Following along...sucks but you have to deal with what's in front of you. I knew we'd have to sell our house in K.C. when we were splitting up bc I could NOT keep up 10 acres by myself! Then I decided to move back 'home' so I would have family support. Even though Dan was hinting at reconciling then (wow 2 years ago!), I specifically chose and bought a house I liked that I knew I could maintain without him. That way, when he came and then left again, I wasn't screwed...
Enough about me! Hopefully you will find a new home that you and the boys will enjoy. Anywhere you are will be home to them, you know...