I will wait for feedback from my W's meeting to decide when to deliver the "Drop OM and go to MC or start the legal process" message. If I get positive feedback - such as her pastor seeing encouraging signs and wanting more sessions with one or both of us, or my W making some effort, I may hold off. If I am told my W is resisting their message, then it's full steam ahead and let the chips fall where they may.
Lead, don't let things happen to you. Choose, decide and take confident action. Letting the chips fall is passive.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
