Thank you SA, GAG, glam, AJ & SCH You advice and observations are invaluable as I sort through this mess.
I still didn't reply to his email wanting to do C earlier. Maybe I should ask him what's the hurry? Anyway received another email referring to my audit deadline
"I can’t imagine how much work that must be... I wish I could help... how is it going?"
And another one
you don’t want to meet this week?
So far didn't reply to any of it. Last night, this was after 11pm, I'm driving D home from work and H calls her. She was tired and slightly annoyed when he called and quite standoffish as she talked to him. He wanted her to come to dinner at his place and she was basically telling him that she doesn't have time this week, listing all she has to do, told him maybe next week, he was obviously pressing and told her that she has to eat dinner anyway, why not with him, she said at home it takes 15min to eat dinner and she just doesn't have the time to spend an evening with him.....
She basically blew him off...I didn't ask anything, this is between him and her, but I'm sure that this has to do with her repressed anger about OW being here last weekend and that he chose her over D, when I asked him to take her so I can do away. That he only remembers her when it's convenient for him.
I felt sorry for him, I've cut him off and now D did also. He must feel pretty alone. I hope that the reality is sinking in.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
