If she thinks that, why did she buy you the bicycle? It's not that simple. But, as I said earlier, when problems are swept under the rug, they just stay there and fester. Things don't get better by themselves. This article talks about how a person who feels that he/she has been a victim turns into an abuser. Once the cycle is started it is very hard to break. http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/ange...e-more-not-okay