I think im goig to just talk with son on the phone every night, i know with him saing dady i love you and miss you and stuff about his elmo stuff it kinda bothers her what she is doing.

Butt the second i mention how hard this will be on him in the long run she shuts down.


She has feelings that she knows what she is doing is wrong thing some where in her head that.
Now that son2 is talking more and saying that he misses me i think it is starting to be a hammer on her damn heart of stone.

I think i have to apply pressure on talking with the boy it's my onley true weapon i have right now.

She told me probley ten times in the past that reason that we cant have conversations is only when i talk about our R and O/M.
Anything else she would be fine to talk about.


I found out from BIL the only time they are going out now is when i have son on my week end. Wife just got a job this last month after notworking the last six monthsof being gone and watching boy in the day time while MIL would watch him in the evning.
I guess real life is catching up with her.


Me 37
Waw 32
son2
bomb 8/11/09
O/M 12/25/09
Divorce filed 8/25/09
divorce finale 6/16/10
Divorce putt on hold 6/16/10
Divorce postponed STBXW idea 8/8/10