Thanks TG, I've been lurking and reading for a while now, and I'm even printing the threads and using my highlighter LOL! I read somewhere that I 'can't hurry up his process, but I can slow it down' and I just wanna make sure I don't do that! I'm enjoying getting to know myself again ... turns out I'm pretty cool smile

Nice to meet you!
PEI


Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc