Welcome to the boards. You will meet a lot of great people here.
And we have fun sometimes too as you can see...
You will get GREAT advice here. I know it seems important that you figure out whether H is in MLC and what stage but I would encourage you not to get too caught up in a label.
The process here is what is important and that doesn't change with your H being MLC or not MLC because it is all about YOU.
Read the stuff OP left for you and keep posting here and people will find you ...
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am