Hi OP! I actually saw your welcome post on someone else's thread and have started printing and reading all of the resources ... so thanks!
I am GAL, detachment is coming along and I'm really working 180s and acting AS IF (not that I don't have low moments or hard days, they're just getting easier to spot coming and last a lot less time now!). I have done a huge amount of work on myself, and, as I said on the Feeding the White Dog thread, I am in a place where I am actually grateful for the growth opportunity - I am NOT the same person I was when this all started. My IC says she is astounded at my ability to assimilate information and the changes and growth I've experienced, but I know that I am nowhere near done ... in fact, I now know that I will never be near done! I am a work in progress
Peace, PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
