Yesterday, my W said she is filing today. She is mad as heck because she sent a note saying how this was better for both of us (blah, blan--you know the script) and "we both made mistakes", and I responded a couple of hours later that "we did both make mistakes, but I have owned my mistakes, and I didn't involve a third party".
She then sent about 6 emails, made a phone call (I has in a teleconference and couldn't pick up), and then tried to call my mom twice. Very angry that I stood up to her on that one
Don't get too down. As you can see, some folks will not own the choices they make.
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So I am just living nicole's life with her awesome dog(who I tell every night that his dad loves him he just forgot).
My oldest dog (I have two), still looks for the STBXW to come home every night. That still sometimes chokes me up, but more than anything it makes me really like him because I know he bonds deeply.
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I told the ic that I take it day by day
You and me both. Hopefully, as time marches on, day-by-day will evolve to where both of us can make some plans for ourselves on our own terms. The only thing stopping either one of us from doing that is that we have been too focused on what has happened in our Ms.
Not a lot of advice today. Not a lot of insight either. Just felt a sense of comradery. Sometimes it helps to know that others are going through the same thing.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
