Better question OIN... Have YOU found a good family therapist yet for you two to go to?

You should be going to one ahead of her so you know them well... You don't want to introduce your wife to some quack who tells her to leave you...

And they ARE OUT THERE... Buyer beware here...

I think you said you couldn't afford it right now... Not sure... But you will need to do that research...

My fear is that she may open a window to a family therapist for a short time and you won't have one ready before she changes her mind on you...

You want a FT in your pocket ready to draw on at any minute

PS : Yes I agree, give her 8 - 12 weeks.. the OM did a LOT of damage that you have to undo...


Last edited by Allen A; 05/26/10 10:56 AM.