Lotus, I agree and hope that day does come. My W will not go to counseling. I have not asked her in since the first month of our sitch, we are on month 4 now.

I want to give my W time to get over OM before making any significant attempts to reconciliation. I am just trying to establish a positive relationship with my W and build from there.

M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10