Me, I think Gabe may be frightened that, just like before, no matter what he does Mish perceives him as treating her like sh*t because that's what she feels she deserves, for reasons that have nothing to do with him.

That is, Gabe is powerless not to be the bad guy and the supposed source of Mish's bad feelings about herself, no matter what he does.

Losing position you ask me, an I'd be hard-pressed to see why he wasn't worried about the same thing.

So, Mish, quit externalizing. If you want a chance at reconciliation, you have GOT to be responsible for your own happiness and QUIT heaping your very own insecurity on other people.


Best,
Oldtimer