BeingMe I agree wholeheartedly, and Goodfight I dont understand how this happens either, my ex married a very controlling woman and her mother is the same so he as two of them sorting his life out for him, ex's wifey has been married three times before and she did this to each and every one of them and more besides, I will never understand how she has gotten him to do somethings I never could, and I also know she is behind him not bothering with his only child and he also as an 84 year old disabled housebound aunt that he doesnt bother with and this is all down to dear wifey, but they chose their new life and they follow their path so it is on their heads be it, life is too short x
