My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

I enjoyed talking with my ic. She listens to me and asks questions. She does also think my h is depressed and I should talk with his mom. I should tell her that even though we are divorcing I am still concerned by what he has been saying. She also said maybe the h would get help by seeing a grief counselor?he does need to see someone though. I told her that I think he thinks his life will be perfect if he is d and with the ow. She said that doesn't make sense. Yes, I know it doesn't

I also asked why he gets the lump in his throat around me and if it was because I am the reality he is running from and she said yes.

Basically she said I need to decide what I want and how long I want to wait for him to maybe "wake up". I don't even know if he is filing this week or not. No clue. He is supposably mad at me. Ic said mood swings up and down with anger are typical... Oh joy!

She asked if I tried telling him what I need... I told her I don't think he cares. I have in the past said things like he is running or being a coward and it angers him. She said that might not be a bad thing... She said I might also not initiate contact with him.

So I am just living nicole's life with her awesome dog(who I tell every night that his dad loves him he just forgot). I told the ic that I take it day by day.... Best I can do for now . She said I was strong and that I need to take care of myself.