If you look under "gigs" under the LA area of Craiglist often you will find people look for immediate help (landscapers, catering companies, movers and so on). Perhaps you can pick up a few "gigs" to at least get the "legal fund" started.
landscaping cowboy! I told you that months ago when the snow was melting. Just like thunderbolt and lightfoot.
Get yourself some anti-depressants or an adjustment if you need, you have to take all of this in stride and realize it is no skin off your back, and its for the best (or she will get more bitter and may never want to come back...)
anger, resentment, nothing new that is interesting is a turn off. it is not proper db'ing to act like that.
