Divorce in 1 month Help with exposing please need

[Allen A]

Take out the stuff about you getting divorced soon and about you failing to protect your family

Do NOT SHOULDER BLAME for your marriage to MIL... She will just BLAME YOU THEN...

Don't attack her daughter either... Just tell her that OM is taking advantage of her daughter when she's vulnerable... I can't imagine MIL is going to take kindly to you telling her that her daughter is lying.. especially w/o any PROOF of it at all...

[twolf]

I think she dose not care one way or the other.

[twolf]

Texted to WAW wanted to talk to son2 she texted back son will call and for me not to call her cell phone.

She called to let me talk to son 20 min after text.
He kept saying miss dada, wuve dada real heart breaker allmost made me cry.He said wuve dada about seven times and was talking about elmo.She told me that he had a cold and her mom and grandma are taking turns watching him .


After i got off the phone with WAW she texted me and said.
Stop texting my family. No one wants to deal withe the drama so leave them alone.
This was after i invited MIL and her mom out for lunch when they drop off son for me.

I didn't even respond. figured wy let her get me talking she is the one worried.


I think things are cooling down between WAW and O/M and not seeing each other as much now that wife has job and MIL does not want to watch son all the time and let WAW go out as much in the evening.

[WhatNow]

twolf:

Was that you on Dr Phil last night? Hope you saw it. Showed how common the WS script is.

[twolf]

I think im goig to just talk with son on the phone every night, i know with him saing dady i love you and miss you and stuff about his elmo stuff it kinda bothers her what she is doing.

Butt the second i mention how hard this will be on him in the long run she shuts down.


She has feelings that she knows what she is doing is wrong thing some where in her head that.
Now that son2 is talking more and saying that he misses me i think it is starting to be a hammer on her damn heart of stone.

I think i have to apply pressure on talking with the boy it's my onley true weapon i have right now.

She told me probley ten times in the past that reason that we cant have conversations is only when i talk about our R and O/M.
Anything else she would be fine to talk about.


I found out from BIL the only time they are going out now is when i have son on my week end. Wife just got a job this last month after notworking the last six monthsof being gone and watching boy in the day time while MIL would watch him in the evning.
I guess real life is catching up with her.

[WhatNow]

I think i have to apply pressure on talking with the boy it's my onley true weapon i have right now.

Yes, your child needs frequent contact with you. But please do not consider him a weapon. As you said, Real Life will catch up with the affair....it may take awhile...fasten your seatbelt, and stay calm in all exchanges. Your child needs one stable parent, and it has to be you.

[MrBond]

I don't get it. How often do you SEE your son?

[twolf]

Ok just got call from FIL2 and MIL1 They told me to stop talking about affair they are accepting WAW relationship with O/M.

They basicaly said im crazy for trying to save my marrige and to deal with it and move on.They say the O/M makes wife happy and does not matter when and how affair happened.
They told me i was crazy for sending letters to Wifes freinds and them.
I have no other way to get this back on track.
FIL said dont try to hold things up in the divorce and just let go like a man and start to move on with my life.
He said that by me trying to hold on makes me look like a fool, and she would have left me sooner or later.He said to leave O/M alone that wife is as much to blame as he is.
he told me that she wanted to be happy and he makes her happy and let it go.

I told him that when i said my marrige vows for better or worse that i meant it i had to try to save my marrige to the bitter end to save my family.
He told me that i just dont know when to stop that she thought it was over months ago.


Well i guess im done i guess if everyone accepts it and has no morrale values then it is time to cut bait and run. I have nothing else to give when your family does not care. TWOLF

[twolf]

Every other week for four days.

[MrBond]

Sorry to hear about the IL's but I had a feeling that was going to happen. But at least you know now.

Is it possible for you to see your son more for an even 50/50? Go and see a L about your parental rights. Then on the days that it's your turn, have her drive him to you. You shouldn't have to keep inconveniencing yourself for her.

Also, didn't you say that she had your son taken away from her once? That already shows how unfit she is. Talk to the L ASAP and start on getting your son first.