I got the ILYBNILWY speach on Easter...then three weeks later he wanted separation...left for one day and he decided to come back. Two days later, he finally admitted to A and left.
I believe he is in MLC. He lost his mother and brother last year and found out he has heart issues. The health scare prompted the A. Said it was supposed to be a quick, quiet fling, but he got caught up in it and is in love with younger OW. Wanted to be left alone so he could be happy.
His tone has changed somewhat since the bomb from the usual I never loved you, I had doubts about the marriage, I was never happy to agreeing to go to C. The first couple conversations he was in tears from the guilt of leaving. I thought it was funny that he got what he wanted and was the unhappiest.
Found out the A is mostly fills a sexual addiction. They don't talk and avoid confrontation. I feel he is trying to still get the emotional support from me. I feel i can't make an ultimatim about he A at this stage.
