1. Your wife needs a time to transition here. It DOES look like she may be headed in the direction of EXITING the OM from her brain... Don't mess with that.. Its a healthy thing for her to finally do... It's like a drug and she is going through withdrawal... OK?
2. It doen'st have to be sincere right now, she just has to make the effort so she CAN SEE that YOU are making an effort.. for a LONG TIME she has been BLOCKING you OUT.. so even though YOU were getting some good practice time in, she wans't allowing any of it in... We aren't after sincerity... we just want her to make the effort... trust that the emotions will gradually over time follow the actions...
3. Keep an eye on her, but don't interfere if she's processing an exit to this affair.. that's what you WANT... don't mess with it
4. LEARN what she likes yes, but she is NOT going to be ready to accept any of your advances or pusuit likely for 12 weeks or more... Just watch and learn about her... Don't mess with the process if its heading in the right direction.. and it sounds like it is.. if you push, you can mess things up...
