Just take it very slow!!! Don't want to scare him away!!!
Yes^ It is about distance. I think your H is uncomfortable with the distance you have recently created so he HAS to move closer to you. If you start moving back toward him, he will need to move away! So, if you stay at this distance (or even move a bit further...or is it farther?...) he will have to move closer to you to maintain his comfort level.
Do you see a time pattern in his requests for D? It may have something more to do with his distance dance w/ OW. Just thinkin'.
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