All of that said, I think your WH is responding well to how you've been for the past few weeks so I would keep that up until it wasn't working anymore!
Good point- I wasn't thinking of doing any flirting for awhile, but I have seen some softness in WH's eyes lately. ??? I think mine have been softening, too in the last week or so-
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004