She has no idea of the changes I am making shocked one. And well she didnt leave on her own, the court made her leave, because of the assault charge.
I think that I will still want her even after the changes. I want my DD1 to have her real Mom and Dad married, and I also know that with the changes I have made, we have a very good shot at reconciliation and a happy marriage.
I know she has a temper sometimes, but most of it was about the way I was which I now see.
It would be ashame for it to be too late. Yes my changes were spurred by this separation, but I am now seeing she wanted me to be a better man.
I am glad she complained, because it opened my eyes honestly, it was time for me to be more responsible, more mature, and not some overgrown teenager stamping their feet not getting their way.
I am thankful for it, but it also lets me see how with the growth and change we will have gone through could make this M better then before and long lasting.
M 36 W 29 Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months Daughter 15 months Bomb 4/22/10 Separated since 4/25/10 OM 6/10/10 Hopeful, but moving on