Maybe your H is just thinking about everything you said before he responds. Maybe he is surprised that you pointed out that the stress on you from the last few months might affect your d's health! AND that you don't want to rush to meet him!

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And wouldn't that be nice? We're friends, she's completely unharmed, and he's as free as a bird! Sorry, reality check, buddy.


Exactly what he is hoping for! And he has no idea how much he is going to miss you (I am sure he already does) and his baby girl!!

WOuld you get into an argument with him if you met him in person do you think? But I wonder what he will say to you- what if he wants to apologize?

Last edited by newmama; 05/26/10 01:40 AM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004