Guys I know, it was a mutual friend whom suggested the letter. She confirmed that there is no OM and that WAW is scared and very depressed since DD1 was taken away.

I just felt if i could maybe post on a anonymous blog, not using names and have mutual friend slide the link to her, I could get my thoughts out there to her.

Basically, just to say that I am not trying to take DD away completely, that I have made solid permanent changes enough to make her head spin, and agree with my responsibility in this crazy situation.

I had to contact her friend as WAW is borrowing her car. I advised friend that if she doesnt transfer the car to my WAW that I am dropping insurance, so she advised she would transfer it to WAW.

I miss her so much, even though I am liking all my changes and my new found discipline. I am improving very rapidly in all areas, especially weight loss and focus on my career as a Network Engineer.

I wish i had a answer?


M 36
W 29
Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months
Daughter 15 months
Bomb 4/22/10
Separated since 4/25/10
OM 6/10/10
Hopeful, but moving on