On the surface my spouse doesn't seem to care. She feels like she's made the right decision and claims to be happy. She says I should tell whomever I must whatever I want to because she's comfortable with her decision to exit our marriage for the OM. Since I've only told our families, her two best friends, and my best friend, it's hard to say if she really means what she says about not caring. Maybe she would care if I exposed to more people.
She did tell me her father isn't speaking to her, and I know her mother isn't very pleased with her behavior either, even though they still talk on the phone. One of her best friends doesn't have much contact with her anymore, and I'm not sure about the other one. There is another mutual friend that I could expose to that would put more pressure on the affair.
Given that my WS hasn't changed her mind yet about wanting a divorce, and that I've been doing LRT and maintaining NC except for separation/divorce business, I figured I'd continue with that. I'd love to rebuild friendship and even marriage with wife, but, don't forget that WS is living apart from me now, supposedly with OM. Until she leaves him, isn't LRT the best course to take? I don't want her to have the best of both worlds.
