Wow Hope . I`m glad to read that things are going well. Most importantly, it sounds like you are in a stronger role in the interactions. You`ve shown that you can go dim, you`ve shown that you won`t necessarily rise to the bait, etc. He`s paying attention big time.
I guess what concerns me is that he may want to `work on things` to feel better about everything rather than to work reconcile. As long as OW is in the picture you have to have some healthy scepticism about his intentions...which may include `softening you up` for D negotiations. I don`t want to be negative...I just want you to have your eyes wide open.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
. I`m glad to read that things are going well. Most importantly, it sounds like you are in a stronger role in the interactions. You`ve shown that you can go dim, you`ve shown that you won`t necessarily rise to the bait, etc. He`s paying attention big time. 
