AJ - yet again good post...lots of food for thought, you are touching on many issues that I've already identified and am slowly working on.
SA - thank you, you are right I was going by DB rules and was being his friend for a long time, but it just wasn't working. Going dark was a big step for me. And I would like to point out that I don't consider it strategy, it's necessity for me right now because I did feel used and emotionally abused. The strategy aspect is an added bonus.
Sent H a reply to the appointment request. Told him you can schedule it after June 7, if you wish. That's it....
He just emailed back
You told me last week that you would be available this week... Why do we have to wait 2 weeks? Your emails are very short and it’s hard to know what’s going on.... But it almost sounds like you don’t really care if we see her together or not...
I replied that I'm busy going through an audit at work.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
