AJ, I don't think Mila's been inconsistent. She has changed tactics, recently. Where as she was talking to her H, there for him, kind and friendly this was what brought him home after his first A 20 years ago.
In the beginning of this, not knowing this was a MLC but recognizing that her H was different this time, she like the rest of us here, sought out some explanation to what was going on with him. As she gained knowledge and advice she realized that her H was cake eating. She decided to try going dark. It hasn't been all that long, but it sure seems that her H is scrambling wondering what the heck is going on with her. Personally, I think the more his mind is on her the less enjoyable time he spends with ow.
Mila, If I've got the wrong take on your sitch don't be afraid to swing a 2 x 4 and straighten me out.
