It goes back to his appetite for cake-eating. The bond between us is still there, but the pull of OW is stronger and he doesn't want to give up either.
And yes, he thinks that by "being dark" I'm trying to punish him and that I'm the one that is being "unreasonable"
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
