Also, I wanted to say thank you to everyone. I seriously don't know what I would do without this message board. I have told three close friends and my parents about what is happening but none of them have been through a seperation or divorce so they are being as supportive as possible.
It means so much to see words of encouragement and hear other stories of people going through the same thing. I have so much shame. Even though I wasn't the one that left I still feel embarrassed.