Your L was okay with that??!! Sorry that sounds like you gave a lot away to Dan right there. Child support covers their home, their food, their clothes. All those things that growing kids need. If Dan is just paying medical,(and just part of it) that isn't even scraping the surface.
You will get taxed on your support since it will then be considered maintanence and he will get to write it off. I know you are sick. I'll leave you alone for now.
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory