AJ - That's how I was playing it in my head...be quiet and listen. How this counselor works is that she will let H start a topic, he has his say and then she would ask me to comment on it. So I will be sucked into it, but I have to just reply as you said politely, nicely and directly...no accusations, no making him feel guilty (he will just by me being in the room anyway). I know that he will push my buttons...and I'm still not that far along in detachment...so it will be a challenge. But I feel that I need to go. I'll try to push it away by couple of weeks. I have a good excuse...some pressing business accounting deadlines. In that time I will work on me.
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